🌿 Intergenerational Living: Why More Families Are Choosing to Live Together — and How to Find the Right Home

Across Washtenaw County and throughout the country, more families are embracing intergenerational living—a housing arrangement where multiple generations live under one roof or on the same property. Whether it’s adult children returning home, grandparents aging in place, or families seeking more connection and shared responsibilities, this model continues to grow.

For many homeowners, it’s not just about affordability—it’s about quality of life, support, connection, and creating a living environment that works for everyone. ❤️

As a REALTOR® who works closely with seniors, empty-nesters, caregivers, and relocating families, I’m seeing this trend expand quickly. But making intergenerational living work requires choosing the right home, understanding potential challenges, and planning intentionally for privacy, independence, and long-term flexibility.

Let’s explore what today’s families should know. 👇

💡 Why Intergenerational Living Is on the Rise

Families are turning to multigenerational housing for many reasons:

• 🧓 Aging parents want to age in place safely with support nearby
  
  

• 🏡 High housing costs make living together practical for young adults
  
  

• 💰 Shared expenses help all generations build financial stability
  
  

• ❤️ Emotional connection and daily support improve well-being
  
  

• 👶 Easier caregiving and childcare when everyone is under one roof
  
  

When done well, this lifestyle strengthens both families and communities.

🔍 Buying a Home for Intergenerational Living: What to Look For

Choosing the right home is the most important step. The layout, features, and long-term functionality need to support everyone’s needs.

1️⃣ Separate, Defined Living Spaces

Privacy is one of the biggest keys to harmony. Look for homes with:

• A walk-out basement ready for finishing
  
  

• A main-floor bedroom suite for older adults
  
  

• Bonus rooms or lofts for flexible use
  
  

• Accessory Dwelling Units (ADUs) or space to add one
  
  

• Two primary suites or a split-bedroom design
  
  

Defined spaces = smoother relationships. ✨

2️⃣ Accessibility Features

Even if mobility isn’t an issue today, planning ahead prevents costly renovations later. Look for:

• 🚪 Wide doorways and hallways
  
  

• 🚿 Walk-in showers
  
  

• 🎚️ Good lighting and handrails
  
  

• 🧺 Main-floor laundry
  
  

• 🚫 Minimal steps or zero-step entry
  
  

These features make aging in place safer and easier.

3️⃣ Zoning & ADU Opportunities

Communities like Ann Arbor, Ypsilanti, and Scio Township are gradually expanding ADU-friendly zoning. Before purchasing, confirm:

• 🏘️ What zoning allows
  
  

• 📝 Whether an existing ADU is permitted
  
  

• 🛠️ Rules for adding or modifying secondary units
  
  

ADUs create flexibility, privacy, and future resale value.

4️⃣ Storage & Parking Capacity

Three generations often means:

• More cars 🚗🚙
  
  

• More belongings 📦
  
  

• More activity happening daily
  
  

Look for a home with ample storage, garage space, and a driveway that fits multiple vehicles comfortably.

5️⃣ Outdoor Living Spaces

Shared outdoor areas enhance well-being for all ages. Consider:

• 🌳 Usable yard space
  
  

• ☀️ A covered patio or porch
  
  

• 🪟 Easy outdoor access from the main level
  
  

• 🪴 Areas for gardening or relaxation
  
  

Outdoor living often becomes the heart of a multigenerational home.

⚠️ Common Obstacles Families Face

Intergenerational living is rewarding—but only when expectations and boundaries are clear. Here are the most common challenges and how to prepare for them:

🔒 1. Privacy Concerns

Without defined spaces, small frustrations can build.

Solution: Choose a floor plan with natural separation or plan for light remodeling.

💵 2. Financial Misalignment

Families often struggle with:

• Who pays for what?
  
  

• Are parents contributing?
  
  

• Should adult children pay rent?
  
  

• How are utilities divided?
  
  

Solution: Create a written financial plan before moving in.

🧓 3. Caregiving Expectations

Older adults may need increasing support over time, and family members may have different assumptions about who will help.

Solution: Discuss roles, schedules, and future care needs early.

🏡 4. Resale Considerations

Not all modifications boost market value equally.

Solution: Check with a REALTOR® before making structural changes or adding an ADU.

💬 5. Emotional Adjustment

Adult children may fall back into “kid” roles. Parents become caregivers again. Seniors adjust to sharing space. Everyone’s routines shift.

Solution: Communication and boundaries are essential.

🌟 Is Intergenerational Living Right for Your Family?

Intergenerational living offers connection, support, financial benefits, and a healthier day-to-day life for many families. But choosing the right home—and setting the right expectations—makes all the difference.

With thoughtful planning, clear communication, and a floor plan designed for privacy and flexibility, families can thrive together under one roof.

If you’re exploring this lifestyle and want guidance—whether it’s evaluating homes, understanding ADU rules, or planning accessibility updates—I’m here to help. 🏡💛

Intergenerational living isn’t just a trend. It’s a return to meaningful living, community connection, and shared support.

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